Real Men Have Balls
You know it's interesting that Trudeau, Macron and Zelensky (in the early days of his presidency) were viewed as weak, corrupt etc. by public perception are now growing a spine and showing some balls. Were we wrong about them to start with? Yes. True character is tested with adversity.
There is a concept called “the stand by” effect where people are reluctant to intervene because they don’t see it as their problem but will join in once someone takes action. This is why in an emergency situation one needs to direct a specific person to call 911. Likewise, a cause or revolution requires a leader or the movement loses energy and focus.
Speaking of men, the reason straight men fear gay men is because the straight is afraid the gay will hit on them the way they hit on women. News flash straights- gay men are terrified of making a pass at you for fear of getting beat up or killed. Also gay men don’t need women and that’s scary to a straight. Even an incel –deep down—desire women. Those who don’t are truly a threat.
Rapists, serial killers, and mass shooters—all men. Maybe this aggression is an evolution they need to get over. While it’s handy for dealing with wild animals and competing with other hominids, it’s ultimately self destructive. A leftover from tribalism where others are viewed as a threat. Like a family member inventing an offense to justify a feud or violence. Maybe it’s something in the water?
Save the Earth, Cut Down a Tree
I just heard a news story that an environmental conference is being held in the Amazon forest to address it’s destruction. So officials are cutting down acres of forest to build a wide road to the venue. The very definition of stupidity and a fat middle finger to Mother Nature. My God.
Turn the Other Cheek
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek.” Matt 5:38
In Roman times it was considered a condescending thing to slap someone with the back of the hand but more a challenge to an equal to strike with the palm. Also striking with the left hand ( historically considered unclean) would be disgraceful for an aggressor. So if someone were to insult you, or put you down, they would backhand with their right. But if you “turn the other cheek” he can’t backhand you the same way. They have three choices: hit you again with the right palm thus signaling a fair fight with an equal, use the left hand which was disgusting or back down from the unfair challenge and look like the bad guy. Jesus made an excellent metaphor.
Quotes
A good conversation is like a mini skirt, short enough to retain interest, but long enough to cover the subject. --Celeste Headlee (10 ways to have a better conversation TED talk).
It’s better to somewhere slow then nowhere fast. --James Thurber
I reject your reality and substitute my own-- Attributed to Adam Savage but from the cult film “dungeon Master”.